11 Month Update!


11 months old! Well, 17 days ago anyways. I’m a little behind.

But really, I’ve been putting this off because that means in the next update he’ll be a year old! How did this happen? I mean, I know HOW it happened but that’s besides the point. I just really can’t believe how fast these past 11 months have gone by. It’s like one big blur and I find myself panicking a lot the last couple of days thinking about telling people “yeah, he’s 1″ or “I have a 1 year old at home” and I worry if I’ve read him enough books, sang him enough songs, tickled him enough, taken enough pictures or kissed him enough in the last year. I feel like a little kid stalling before bed time…”wait! just one more!”

I’m so terribly sad about it and may have cried a few times already this month (I’m a cry baby, I know) but as sad as I am to have him grow up even the tiniest bit, I am also really excited about it! He’s so much fun to hang out with these days (when we’re not chasing him all over the house. Seriously, this boy does not sit still for a second!) and watching his expressions and what he gets excited about is better than anything I could have imagined.

And I bet it’s only going to get better, if my heart can bare it.


The Little Things

Uh-oh! We’re in trouble!
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IMG_7287 Making friends
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IMG_7393 Wicked witch
IMG_7345 Baby toes! (Can you believe these toes will be a YEAR OLD in just a few weeks? Wahhh)
Funny story – I get asked if I’m part Asian all the time. It’s crazy!  I never saw it but apparently everyone else does because it’s not a one time thing. I even had a customer at the bookstore say “the Asian girl was working”. Anyways, my mom text this picture of my great-gandparents and well, I guess now I know where I get it from. And it’s Cherokee, not Asian.

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Trader Joesssss!


On Monday we took our very first trip to the new Trader Joes by our house. I’ve seen people posting and talking about the all mighty TJ’s for a long time but only now have I been able to experience the awesomeness of it all. I had no idea it was Columbus Day (Sorry, Columbo. You’re lucky I even remembered it was Monday.) so the place was jam packed. I actually thought I was being all smart by waiting until Monday afternoon so we could stroll around and take out time. Ha! We were all squeezed in there trying to look at all the cool, organic products with fancy labels we’ve only seem on other people’s instagram accounts while trying not to step on each others toes. By the time I checked out I weaved our cart down each aisle a few times (it’s not very big) and still didn’t see half the things on the shelves. I was just throwing things in the cart. “ooh, you look good…and you too…oh, but what about this?”


But somehow a good amount of stuff somehow didn’t make it home with me. I think it had something to do with the way their checkout lines work. Instead of putting your items on a conveyor belt like at Publix, you put your cart on the cashier’s side of the counter and they load, ring up, and bag everything while you stand on the other side. Well, I had Cooper in the cart and wasn’t too keen on the idea so I just handed him everything instead. But somewhere between my cart and the scanner a pineapple, two avocados, a bag of popcorn, and a sparkling water disappeared. I’m just as confused as you are. I wasn’t charged for any of it and I did make it home with the cookie butter so all in all, not so bad.

Here is what did make it home: IMG_7384

(who does this kind of stuff?)

So far, wins all around and prize for the person who guesses the total!


Pumpkin Patch

I am currently laying in bed with a heating pad on my back because I am suddenly a little old lady. I have no idea what I did, but I did it good. Which is really, really bad. Here’s to hoping tomorrow is better because being injured and having a legit excuse to be a couch potato is just not as much fun when you have an 11 month old who won’t sit still longer than half an episode of Little Einsteins.

We went to the Flamingo Road Nursery pumpkin patch last week since there was going to be a “cold front” – meaning 85 degrees and breezy. In October. Crazy, I know. But apparently everyone else had the same idea because it was packed. I should have expected it, but we still got the best parking spot in the whole place. We pulled in just as someone right up front was leaving. There’s few things that Corey loves more than a prime parking spot, so I knew this trip was starting off on the right foot.

We met my parents there, I had a massive grilled ear of corn slathered in garlic butter, we waited in a ridiculously long line to take Cooper on his first hayride (he was more interested in the free apple cider – but I don’t blame him), and we all went home and took a nap. A great day indeed. We just can’t wait to go back when it’s not pumpkin season so we can actually look around because this place was just beautiful. It’s right down the street and we’ve never been there. I love when that happens.

Now, on to the good stuff…

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DSC_0134 I reallyyyyy wanted to put Cooper in the little staged photo area on a bale of hay but the line was SO long and Corey was like “here, just grab a pumpkin”. Cooper was not amused.
DSC_0135 DSC_0137 Hailey now requests either an Elsa or Anna braid everyday. Today she was Anna.  DSC_0141 IMG_7299 Hayride lines are for checking your fantasy football score. #dadlife DSC_0147 IMG_7304 DSC_0153 DSC_0149

We didn’t buy a pumpkin, but I plan on picking up one when we go to THE NEW TRADER JOES THAT IS OPENING THIS WEEKEND (I’m a little excited. Can you tell?) and I can’t wait to see how Cooper reacts to the gooey insides. $10 says he tries to eat it.



After I had Cooper I couldn’t wait to be able to wear my regular clothes again and get my old body back. What I didn’t realize was that I’d still be waiting almost a year later! A good majority of my clothes fit, but they just don’t fit my life right now . So in the interest of not wearing yoga pants and the same spit-up stained t-shirt everyday, I’ve been trying to get creative.

I’m intrigued by the whole idea of a capsule wardrobe. Have you guys heard of this? Basically, you pick 30-40 pieces and wear only those items for the next 90 days (or one season if you live somewhere other than the perpetual summer that is South Florida) to see what really works in your wardrobe and what key items you’re lacking. The appeal for me is having less options because I’m still going to end up wearing my favorite striped shirt but not before I try on at least 20 other outfits and there is a pile of clothes on my bed bigger than me. And before I know it, I’ve wasted an entire precious nap session.

When I was working in an office my closet was full of slacks and pencil skirts. And now that I’m (mostly) a stay-at-home mom, those things have ZERO relevance to me. Anytime I need to get dressed it’s for working at the bookstore, running errands, or just hanging around the house. I looked to a few of my favorite mommy blogs for inspiration but most of them are still pushing their strollers around in sky high heels. All I can do is roll my eyes. Really? Either I’m wearing them wrong or these girls are just way tougher than me because as good as they look, I just want to be comfortable. And if I can look even remotely put together while feeling like I’m still in my pajamas, then I’d call that a win. So I’ll save the heels for (the very rare – so rare it hasn’t happened in 11 months) date night.

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I keep telling myself I’m going to go through my closet and pick my 30 items and give this thing a shot, but it hasn’t happened yet. For now, I’m relying on accessories! Necklaces are about out of the question (I put on the one in the picture for the picture, took it off, and didn’t put it back on again until I was walking out the door to come to work), but a new pair of glasses can change an entire outfit. So when Firmoo contacted me and offered to send me another pair, I couldn’t reply fast enough.


This time I chose something a little more daring to be able to add a little interest to my outfits , and I LOVE them. I’ve been trying to coordinate around them since they showed up in my mailbox last week.

What do you think? Am I the only one who gets totally giddy over something so silly as a capsule wardrobe? Any mom fashion tips I need to know? Is this thing on?